Detective Conan 2010
Detective Conan movie 14
Genres: mystery
Vintage: 2010-04-17
Premiere date:
2010-04-17 (Japan)
Jirokichi Suzuki, Sonoko's uncle, invites Conan, Ran, the Junior Detective League, and others to ride Bell Tree, the largest airship in the world, for a six-hour trip to Osaka. However, Kid has his eyes set on the Lady of the Sky, a jewel aboard the vessel. Also, the mysterious terrorist group known as Red Siamese Cat will try to hijack the airship itself.
How can we give our romantic relationship a boost? There's Valentine's day just gone by and is there something I can do to increase love with my close partner?
It really does give our relationship a boost to make time to be together, whether its for a walk or something else we share together. Making that effort to have special time together to share and enjoy one another's company really makes a difference. It's so easy to keep putting this off for one reason or another.
Appreciation and focusing on the positive qualities of our partner is another key.
One great way to show appreciation and increase our appreciation for our partner is to have a shared notebook where you each write about something that you have appreciated in the other.
It's so easy for us to get stuck in focusing on the negative and how the other person is 'getting us down'. This is just a habit and we can change this.
It is amazing the difference it makes to look at your partner and feel love and appreciation for them - to make an effort to stand back and focus on them and on what you are grateful for. How has this person enriched your life?
Appreciation and gratitude can become just as much a habit as seeing difficulties or irritations. It's like magic when we practise love, appreciation and gratitude and switch from seeing things in a negative light. It pushes out all that heavy gloomy focus on problems and difficulties.
Gratitude is a wonderful quality to focus on and grow in ourselves. It creates happiness, peace, love and good feeling.
Appreciation of yourself and your partner, nourishes the relationship and builds love, nourishing the giver and the receiver.
This is rekindling the love you have for this person and remembering what drew you to them in the first place.
It's important too to feel this love and appreciation for yourself and keep focused on this. We have this false idea that this is selfish but the truth is that I can't truly love another until I learn to love myself. This starts with consciously choosing this and making a decision to work on it and never allow myself to speak in an unloving or disrespectful way about myself. Start today to love and appreciate yourself and fill those love banks in yourself. Then you will find it easier to love others and enjoy life!
Communication is the big one in relationships and open loving communication is the ideal to work towards.
The art of powerful, loving communication and the confidence to express clearly what it is I want to say, was a challenge for me for many years. Fear of saying the 'wrong thing' and causing upset or conflict or disapproval was certainly a big part of what kept me swallowing back my words.
Communication improves through practice and becoming aware of what pulls us back from communicating.
It really starts with communicating clearly and lovingly with myself. How do I speak to myself?
When conflict arises between you and your partner it really helps to agree to take time out to calm down and understand what's going on for yourself. Why did this issue upset you? Agree to discuss the matter when both of you are calmer.
Close relationships press all our buttons and bring up all our issues. One important understanding that has made enormous difference for me is that when I feel or think something or react in a particular way - this is all coming from me and my attitude. The other person doesn't cause my reaction or feelings - my attitude does.
This is a really important distinction and we might resist it but Wow! Does it make a difference!
We have learned to focus on changing the other and to think if only the other were different I would be ok. But this changes nothing - the situation persists - and we can feel helpless and frustrated and blaming of the other.
I like this quote from Ruth Bell Graham "A good marriage is the union of two good forgivers". Holding grudges against another keeps us stuck and suffering. Forgiveness of self and of others is such a central part to love. Forgiveness opens us up and opens the way. It nourishes and enriches and replenishes our heart energy. It creates health and well being.
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